This is the sort of relationship you always promised yourself. Someone with strength, drive, and pure sex-appeal. They will give you a run for your money, test your stamina, and completely fulfil you.

The only trouble is that it's never like that in real life. It can be, but there is always more to it than just that. The plain truth is that a Scorpio can give you more than you actually want.

You are both ruled by the planet Mars, and that is what gives both of you the limitless amount of energy that you have. All this energy needs physical expression, if not sexual expression, an for the Arian it is as though everyone else in the Zodiac is more than a little dull and lifeless compared to the powerful pulse of Mars that you enjoy. Scorpio of the other, indeed the only other, sign with Mars as the driving force. The difference between you is that while you are motivated by being Mars, expressing it as a physical force, the Scorpio is motivated by controlling Mars, using it as a powerful tool.

The Scorpio has none of your instinctive belief that nothing can go wrong because you will somehow blaze your way through your challenges with a bit of luck and some enthusiasm. For the Scorpion nothing goes wrong because he stays in control, and everything runs in the direction he thought it would. The Scorpio needs to know how things work, what goes on in the background while no one else is looking, and how can he stay on top of it all. Scorpions are very emotional and these emotions run very deep. Most of these emotions are under the surface, but he will never stop thinking, and never stops feeling things either, which most people tend to forget. All the intensity of emotional response, which in you is on the surface, in him, is there but invisible.

Therefore, a love affair between you will be a very strong and powerful thing. You can only imagine things on one level at a time, Aries, but the Scorpio has no limits. When a little trust has grown, you will be able to see some of his depths, but not all of them. You will offer him you physical self, which is all you have to offer, which is the part that means most to you, and he will match your strength. If you are exceptionally strong, the Scorpio may withdraw somewhat, because to lose to you would mean a loss of control. This is something the Scorpio can't risk, there must always be a little left in reserve-only you can play all out at once. He will want to control you, and he will be possessive, for to be anything else would involve losing control. You may resent this characteristic and fight him more fiercely than is good for either of you.

Perhaps the passions an jealousies make this pairing one a poor idea as a marriage partnership. It will certainly have a lot of ups and downs. Maybe it's best as just an affair.