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A difficult match indeed, hinging on the essential differences between a person who is a success by being and one who makes the achievement of success his life's work. Capricorn sees you as the beginning and end of his own existence. He sees you as a successful, and well liked. People gather around you, listen to you, take notice of you; you are important. You are all that Capricorn wants. You are a star. He wants to be important and be at the top of the hierarchy. He sees your achievements as a result of applied self-confidence, which is basically correct. He believes that if he can exude confidence as you do, that he too will achieve success. Only he doesn't see the warmth of the Sun's energy which you radiate. He doesn't have this, his ruling planet Saturn is cold and restrictive. Therefore, it will take him longer to achieve what you achieve.
A friendship will be very difficult. He is restrained and aloof and you are open and generous. Capricorn is a quiet person with a strong sense of duty and work ethic but a low level of fun. There just isn't a great deal to talk about between the two of you. If you should become lovers, it is because the Capricorn sees you as a necessary step in his career. You will be disappointed because he will be cautious and reserved in his response to you. You would like warmth and enthusiasm in return for your own, he won't give you any. He won't move unless it is within a carefully defined framework, spontaneity doesn't exist in his vocabulary. As business partners you could do very well. So long as you forget how you got where you are and all your personal differences. Allow him to provide the framework for your creativity and your effectiveness will increase. Providing you give him the rewards he needs, you will never look back. As a marriage, you would have to run things similar to a business partnership. You would also have to provide the warmth and emotional input the family and home require, as he is too cold to do so.
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