Even though you are different in every way-Cardinal and Fixed, Air and Earth, outgoing and collecting- this is a much better relationship than one may think. You happen to have the same guiding planet, Venus, and its not a situation that happens very often. If you want sympathy talk to your Arian friends about their Scorpio friends, because Aries and Scorpio are in the same situation.

What this boils down to is that you are both using the same energy, but using it in different direction and for a different purpose. You both will find yourself saying that you can see what the other is doing but I wouldn't do it that way if I were you. It would be ideal if you both could also say that you should try it the others way because it looks quite interesting. More often than not though, you will both be thinking that your way is the right way.

As lovers, one of you will have the double bass part and the other the flute's line. You are unlikely to be playing the same tune at the same time, and may not even be on the same page of the score! You may get married if the Libran has stability and material comforts high on their list of needs, otherwise a marriage between these two signs is a poor match.