This pairing is more difficult for the Arian than it is for you, but it still will be difficult to form. It represents the unattainable ideal as far as you are concerned in that all the things that you would like to be the Arian already is. Aries is definite, he isn't much else but he is definite. He knows where he is going and he knows how he is going to do things. And, he actually goes out and does them. Effective action is the center of his existence; he is useless unless he is actually doing something and what's more he knows it. Since he is always so busy he never has time to think and consider the subtle quality of things. As a result what you have to offer him is lost on him.

He is everything you find appealing and everything you are trying to avoid, in your eyes. He is simple and straightforward in his approach, at times he even seems naive. His physical strength and power are enormous yet you know that he wouldn't use them against you on purpose because there is no malice in him. One of the unexpected ways that you suit each other is that you don't crowd each other's space. An Arian likes his own company best because he doesn't like people wasting time talking when he could be active. If you are in the way when he is busy, you will sense it, and melt away, he won't mind this in the least. He won't be bothered by those occasion's when you want to slip off and do something on your own, he can always find something to do. You can see that your preference for mobility and his preference for getting on with the job are compatible. He sees you as something almost akin to a fairy creature, a wonderful and fascinating being who vanishes when he tries to pin it down. He remains fascinated by your range of imagination and the scope of your emotional sensitivity, though he will never understand it. You have none of his physical abilities and he can see this, you just can not simply meet a problem head on and deal with it so he feels that he should do this sort of thing for you. This is a good arrangement though you will have to do something in return.

As a friendship progresses you will find your role to be there to comfort him when he fails at something, which he can not seem to understand as possible. So long as you don't have to comfort him for to long you will be happy with this arrangement. You could succeed in business together, but only in the media where your imagination is useful. He needs directing over the long term and you may not have the firmness for this purpose. As a marriage you could make a lot of progress in the early years but later on it will be less promising. You would eventually find him to simple and straightforward. He would have to adapt to your way of thinking for it to last.