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Other than both being mutable signs and having your mind and imagination as your greatest assets, the similarities between you and Gemini end. Gemini's analyze their surroundings in a way that you do not. Everything is a new puzzle, something that he can apply his mind to and solve. He takes situations and people apart to examine them. Once he understands it he plays with it to see if it will do something different or interesting. To you this is horribly clinical, he seems to loose the essence of the experience by dissecting it. You let the experience wash over you so that you can feel its qualities as you absorb them. You are willing to be changed by the experience, even to the point of becoming a part of it, while he is determined that he will not be affected by it in any way. He wants to leave emotional response out of experiences while focusing on understanding them intellectually. Gemini's don't enjoy emotions. They do not have the same facility with their emotions as you do. This tendency to stand apart from the situation and not become personally involved he can be rather cruel. If it helps him to understand what is going on, anything is reasonable to him.
If you can keep in mind the similarities between what he does and what you do then you can handle him quite well, you may even enjoy what he comes up with. You won't enjoy his tendency to change the truth of things. His games come out in speech and most people don't see them as games, no emotional weight is attached to what he says and he doesn't expect anyone else to either. The difference between you is that the products of his experience are put out again for public consumption, whereas yours are kept for internal use.
A friendship can be very bright and bubbly on the surface. He will love analyzing your imaginative ideas and you will enjoy absorbing his observations. You would do well in a business where communication is involved but it wouldn't be a good idea to be your own bosses you are both too changeable. As lovers you would have your problems. Geminis have no sense of romance, as to them it is all sentimental nonsense, nor are they happy with the emotional demands of an intimate relationship. They are not physical either, so you would be better off staying friends. Marriage will be difficult as he will dismiss your impressionability as woolly-headedness, and you will come to dislike his sharp intellect.
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