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Love Compatability of a Sagittarius and a Cancer



You will find this relationship difficult. Cancerians do not live their life on the outside in the way that you do. A Cancer individual is extremely sensitive and she responds very quickly to the emotional needs of others. Understandably, she needs to have a mechanism for shutting off this response or she would become exhausted just by walking down a crowded street. Cancerian's absorb energy from others. They do not give it out like you do and since they absorb it, they don't have much of a choice in what they take in, they have to take what comes. This makes life riskier than it is for yourself, and as a result, they make very sure that they trust a person first before they allow themselves to absorb his influence. When someone is in need of care and protection, Cancerians respond quickly with love and care. You on the other hand are not likely to notice that anybody needed help. Since you give out so much energy it isn't easy for you to feel a lack of energy in somebody. Therefore, Sagittarians have a reputation for being unsubtle and insensitive. It isn't that you don't care, it is just that you can't see when care is needed or how much.

A Cancerian is wary at first and your ever-changing point of view means that she has to constantly reevaluate you. A Cancer's own security comes first and every time you change where your coming from she has to reevaluate and decide if she needs to change her responses or retreat into her shell. This takes time and you just don't give them the time because you can change your direction from week to week. Cancerians are slow to react than you would like and is short on enthusiasm by your standards. The short of it is that she doesn't have the energy to throw away in the way that you do. A Cancer can not bounce back from setbacks in a matter of minutes like you do so she worries about what she will do if things don't work out. Your openness makes her gasp and close her eyes in fright at the risks you take though, he loves your warmth and genuineness and finds your eternal optimism very cheering.

As friends you are the classic odd couple but you like each other's company. Marriage will take some work as Cancer is very home-loving and seeks always to make a safe retreat, you wonder what all the fuss is about. Adjustments to each other will have to be made. This also applies to a business partnership. If you handle the marketing and leave them to the financial side you won't have any problems. Don't try to tell each other how to do the job though.



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