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Three-signs-apart relationships are usually a strain though this one is less of a strain than others. That is because both of you are pretty flexible in your approach to things, and because you both have a strong sense of doing things for other people's benefit. Therefore, compromise is not a new word to either of you.
Essentially the problem you face is one of scale. You have a boundless imagination which needs to roam free. Whereas Virgo has little imagination and even less time for hypothetical concepts. He prefers to concentrate his energies on the actual job in hand and to make sure that every detail is attended to. You see things through a telescope whereas he sees things through a microscope. It is worth building on what you have in common though. You both share an interest in how things work and how to do things for the best. Virgos concentrate on the actual mechanics of the process and you concentrate on how people use it and how it helps them.
As partners you can accomplish a lot providing you don't cross over into each others territory. If you look after the theory and the application and he looks after the technique and efficiency you should accomplish a lot. You lack the ability to generalize on specific tasks and he is unable to deal with the theoretical and the scope to handle things on your scale. If you restrain from criticizing him for being fussy over details (after all someone has to pay attention to details) and you ignore his criticism for having your head in the clouds things should work well. You are experts in parallel fields. Remember mentally you are quite different. Virgo analysis bit by bit and you grasp the whole thing at once. You are similar but different emotionally as well. Neither of you wishes to feel tied down. You because you love freedom where he feels lost with irrational things like emotions so he attempts to have nothing to do with them.
As friends you should at least understand each other. You have similar views though different reasons. As lovers you are not suited. Virgos are too careful and you prefer things to be more boisterous. As business partners you will need a third person to look after the middle where most things happen. You work on a large, impractical scale and Virgo works on too small a scale. As a marriage you can work together though you will find his small-scale view frustrating. Best way to make it work is to attack common problems from different ends in your own ways.
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