To you, Gemini will appear insubstantial and may not take things seriously enough for you. He doesn't seem to have enough emotions that you can gather in and work with. Gemini accepts change for its own sake and you can't get a hold of him at all. This will exasperate you.

You are devious and clever, but Gemini makes you feel ponderous and dull in comparison. Gemini is so much quicker than you, so fast to see the different sides of things and you desire to be more like him. He can through away his best ideas like they didn't matter. Yet you will hold onto yours because they were so costly to produce. Gemini hardly ever takes anything seriously because the novelty of the idea is worth more to him than its content and novelty can't be kept.

As lover, you are not a very good match. His needs are for playful teasing and mental rapport. Yours are deeper, and both more physical as well as emotional. This would be like matching a rapier against a cannon. The weapons are so different that no engagement is possible. You would be smarter to remain as friends and let your shared passion for finding things out amuse you both.