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This partnership is difficult for you to understand. You have an appreciation of peace and quiet, of letting the world go by in its own way without interference, which is simply not comprehensible to a Gemini. Their need to think, to read, to receive information and then voice an opinion on it, will occasionally make you wish you could switch them off like a television. You can't, so you will have to live with the noise.
Geminis are the sort of people who think that they are always right, because they have thought about things and come to a definite conclusion. You can appreciate this, because you know that you are right too. Not from thinking about things, but from feeling them and taking things slowly. Gemini can change his mind completely every five minutes, and each time he is convinced that he is right. The same mental evaluation has taken place, and the same force of convictions there, and yet he has changed his viewpoint completely. This is very unsettling to you. You feel that he is ether making it all up, which is potentially threatening to your stability because you may be taken in, or he is right each time, which is worrisome because you can't react that fast.
As lovers, you will be a strange mixture. You would like to have his lightness of touch and his way with words; he makes you feel clumsy and slow, but you find his conversation so flattering, and he makes you feel good. From the other side of the relationship, he needs your stabilizing influence when things aren't going quite the way he'd like them to. This will be a lot more frequently than you would imagine though. It's because he never believes that effort is a necessary component of success. You will have to take the role of an understanding parent, while he takes that of a child.
Unless you have strong common interests, it will be hard to make a lasting relationship out of these two signs, because you aren't concerned with ideas any more than he is with material things. He will lose interest in you unless there is something you both enjoy. You must expect arguments from time to time, when he changes his ideas and denies having thought differently before. He must remember that to make his dreams come true requires patience and application, and you are his best source of both those qualities.
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