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One of the easiest relationships to form is between the Virgo and the Cancer individuals. You both are very careful not to upset the other, respectful of each other's needs and preferences, and above all , not aggressive and assertive in you demands. You have a lot in common. Both of you care for others as a way of displaying your energies. The response from those you care for is what you really need not the action itself. You see the Cancerian as a confidante and advisor. When it comes to sentimentality you are unsure of what to do, Cancer will comfort you and somehow absorb, redirect and take care of this irrational feeling without any fuss. You are grateful for this as to you sentiment is a powerful but irrational force. Another thing about Cancer you like is that when things get out of hand they are the best helper you can hope for. Your helper must be someone who accepts things your way, you want them to support and reassure you, tell you you are on the right track. Above all you want your helper to be discreet. Cancer is the strong but pliable, supportive but silent helper you've been looking for.
Cancerians are often to shy to be effective and have a tendency to act on their hunches rather than their deductions. This doesn't matter to you, you can easily remedy these by taking them off their hands and assuming the roles yourself. That way you can fulfill your desire to be of service. He sees you as a much more confident version of themselves. You can do what they can not, put into words and actions all the things that he feels is right. Cancers want to change things for the better with consideration and care. Virgos seem to understand this need to preserve and change at the same time. Cancer appreciates this, you are vehicle for his plans.
As friends the relationship works very well. You are intuitively considerate towards each other, though it may not be as verbal as you would like. You will also find him moody. As lovers this is more pronounced. Cancerians work on a deeper emotional level that you and you may feel out of your depth. If you keep it light so that you are working at a level you feel confident with the Cancerian will feel undercompensated and hurt. As a marriage you will have to take steps to ensure that you don't take things too seriously. You share a strong sense of duty, and you both will be concerned about doing things right for the sake of the family's future. Don't spend too much time worrying or you will forget how to enjoy the present.
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