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A match up with the sign next to yours is asking for trouble. The Libra individual will not recognize your efforts as being of importance at all and this will frustrate you to no end. Why would you want to put yourself through this?
The Librans are as different from you as you could possible imagine. The mind of a Libra works in a very different way. Where you analyze things to see how they work, trying to master the intricacies of everything so that you can make better use of them, they simply pick the bits that they like. For example: he doesn't need to know how his car works: if it is comfortable, runs and he likes the color, it will do fine. To dig beneath the surface never occurs to the Libran. If there is no appeal to him then he has no time for it. From your point of view there is a surface judgement in a Libran, it has to look good rather than actually be good. This is quite how the Libran works, but it is how you see it.
Lazy, bone idle, is the Libran. They inhabit a world of people and friendships rather than your round of work and duties, and this makes them do nothing all day in your eyes. Every time you find something out of order they find two things with an affinity that can work better together. Each time you upset someone they reassure and soothe. They look outwards where you look inwards. Your aim is individual perfection, and they want individuals to become friends. You want to be of service to the community, but there wouldn't be any community to serve if his energy didn't create it. That's what they do for you. You on the other hand don't do anything for them on the surface. He sees you as a dull boy who is all work and no play. He likes to take things at a leisurely pace, and most importantly to enjoy himself. At times though, they are unable to cope. There are just too many obstacles requiring serious effert. At these times, you support him. You help him tackle their problems in the same way you do - one bit at a time.
As a friendship this relationship is not likely to last. As lovers you will need to have a sense of humour. Librans are great romantics and you see such stuff as nonsense. If either of you is at all ambitious this pairing as a marriage makes a good team as you can support each other very well. It is not a love match though. If you want a hard working, achieving marriage, go ahead. If not look elsewhere for a marriage partner.
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